Sometimes I get incredibly scared. Scared not only of the world, but of myself as well. It is not an easy place to be, and it makes me reassess what I am doing, where I am going in quite a frenetic and frenzied way.
The world intrudes on life every day, that is only normal and expected, but at times it becomes pervasive, influencing and integrating, harrowing and hassling every action I try to undertake. What do I mean by that? Sometimes I lack the skills or inclination to shut out the world, and I can't make decisions without trying to take into account everyone and everything. I get scared that my actions have a far more dramatic effect than they could ever do, that my actions might set in effect a chain reaction that has a terrible and unforeseen outcome. The nasty trick that my OCD is able to pull is that I also become convinced that inaction would be equally disastrous.
Of course, it is ridiculously easy here in the comfort of a quiet January evening to set out the issue, and explain the mental meaness and trickery behind it, almost brush it off as an affectation, a 'thing' to be owned and ordered. Oh were that the case when I am in the moment though. When it strikes, it is not easy at all, it is terrifying, seemingly inescapable and very, very real. Even the most logical and obstinate part of my mind caves in under the pressure and accepts the gravity of matters. I have to do something and I have to do it right now, but what? What do I do, and how can I live with the consequences if things go awry? The mental gymnastics I go through trying to extrapolate the consequences are exhausting and rapid. It matters not that the downside risks do not appear, I have merely been lucky, once again amd next time I better get it right or there will be a price to be paid.
That's the world, but sometimes it is me that I am scared of. When it gets dark (and by that I mean dark for me), I go to places I don't want to be. This is very hard to write about as the me that is constructing this blog entry barely recognises the me I can become when suffering a severe bout of depression. Sometimes I feel ashamed of myself, unable to accept where I am. I find it a matter of great personal embarassment that I have never married, nor had a family, that it is weakness in my character and my mind that prevents me from finding love again. It hurts to write those words, but not as much as it hurts to feel those emotions. I taunt myself, parading failures like tickertape heroes and holding out unreasonable goals as what should constitute my proper expectations.
Taunting oneself is a terrible place to be in, the last trustworthy champion of the self is the self, and once that goes, it is a rapid and bitter decline into misery and the all-encompassing bleakness. That is when I reach the lowest ebb, the nadir, and where I face my greatest fears. I am not sure I have the strength to write about them openly, nor the desire to. This is the point where reality fades into insignificance and what remains of Dave begins to pose questions that I am too afraid to answer. It is a place where I am utterly alone and nothing can reach me or comfort me. Family, friends, loved ones are so far away that I fear I will never get back to them, and if I do I will be a shell of the man I was before. It is a place I have been to twice and somewhere I would fight any battle, face any demon, do absolutely anything to never have to go to again. There's fear, and then there is this place, beyond fear, beyond despair and I am terrified of it.
Monday, 2 January 2012
Tuesday, 27 December 2011
Dealing with Christmas
'Did you have a good Christmas Dave?'
Yes, I did. I always enjoy the holiday, but, as ever, it comes at a cost in terms of different emotions and responses to cope with and accustom myself to. So much so that I thought it appropriate to write a piece today about what it is like to enjoy Christmas whilst combatting the twin dangers of my OCD and the ever present threat of depression.
I spent Christmas with my parents, and the day itself we all went to my Aunts for dinner and to celebrate the day (a direct follow on from my childhood when it was my maternal grandparents who always hosted the actual day). Of course being around those you love the best is in the main beneficial, but there is the thorny issue of how much strain I am under to hold things together and, if so, how much I can let myself show them of this without thinking I am spoiling Christmas for everyone (which in and of itself provides a feedback loop of depression and negativity).
Christmas Eve I actually went out for a few drinks, the first time in a few years I have done so (since we all grew up and the annual mash up and hangover mix became a Christmas tradition that had lapsed). My father and I ventured over the road to the hotel, expecting to find the bar packed full of those who were 'getting away from it all' and letting the professionals handle their celebration. In truth, aside from a young couple who nursed a couple of pints of cider for the evening, it was just the two of us. Strangely, it was quite a comforting evening, if somewhat removed from the reality of the busy party season.
That being said, I didn't drink enough to be suffering on Christmas morning and found myself downstairs at a reasonable hour and pleased to find Santa was aware to forward my haul to the parental home. It was OCD that took the first bite. I have an occasionally strong aversion to odd numbers, and a particular fear of doing things only once in my life. As foolish as it sounds to write it down and express it in words, the feelings that go with it are very real, and very strong. I found myself opening the presents and making sure I touched them all at least twice, and an even number of times. Naturally, I know there is no reason to suppose anything terrible would happen should I not, but that is the rub - the compulsion to follow the directive and to do this was then, and will be again, insurmountable. I feel bad when I am acting on a compulsion, partly because it chalks up a win for OCD and partly because I do not want anyone to be aware that I am doing it. It feeds right into the heart of worry that I will spoil Christmas if my parents became aware that during the joyous activity of exchanging and opening gifts, I am wracked by, and a prisoner of, compulsion.
The other attack by OCD came during Christmas dinner. Another aspect of the illness is that when I say I am going to do something it becomes an imperative that I do so. As a result, I oftern overeat. I might say when someone asks if I have enough, or want some more vegetables, meat etc that 'I might have some more once I have cleared the plate' - this becomes a direct instruction to the part of my brain that acts on compulsion to compel me to follow through on the suggested action. Strangely this doesn't always happen, but when it does I am in its thrall. And so it was during dinner. Does it hurt anyone? No. I just eat more than I might otherwise do so, but it adds to the rumblings of discontent within that I am struggling along and am riddled with imperfection which at any moment will bring the seasonal joy crashing to the ground in smouldering ruin. I am somewhat fortunate that my metabolism is not punishing me severely for it.
Depression is a much more difficult beast to predict, and, in many ways, deal with. I used to 'deal' with depression via drink (and yes the quotation marks whould tell you I know that is not dealing at all) - as a younger man, a fitter man, the punishment that heavy drinking does can be contained. Not that we were without close runs with disaster. Mudpuddlers of a longstanding vintage will remember the end of term that I returned home (actually for Christmas) yellow as my liver stuttered along at stall speed trying to cope with the abuse I was giving it. I report it now merely as a fact of what once was, fortunately for the here and now I had at that time the love of both a great family and a good woman who got me, at length and strain, onto a less destructive path. However, that was then, for now I always fear at times of holiday that depression will strike and leave me incapable of enjoying myself and denying enjoyment to those around me.
I had a bad run in to the holiday - despite a great start to December and a lovely trip up to London, I started struggling around mid month. I was still carrying this bleakness (albeit reduced somewhat) into the time at my parents. Christmas is an awful time to have depression because it comes with a seasonal overdose of guilt - I have no right to be down when so much love and kindness if being shown. My depression will bring down the glee of those I love the best - and so on and so forth in ever increasing strangulation. The flipside is that there are enough distractions around to keep the mind from dwelling too long on its 'state'.
This year was a definite tightrope. I have been having difficulty lately accepting where I am living, I am feeling increasingly isolated and exposed and this was bubbling along in the back of my mind all throughout the holiday. The major problem with the Christmas run in was a feeling of loneliness, even when in a crowded room or general company. This was again a problem over the last few days. It took a very big effort not to succomb to gloominess as I once again found myself surrounded by loved ones and yet at the same time distant and alone, cocooned in misery that I could neither show nor express. The tightrope is not these feelings in and of themselves as I have suffered with depression long enough to know you cannot think your way out of it. No, the tightrope is allowing yourself to experience this without letting it define your moverall mood, or the day. It would be very easy to allow that, but then would come the constant waves of grief and guilt for everyone elses Christmas that you have taken from them with your self-absorbtion. It is not easy to walk the line as it were, because if it is taking too much effort to do so, the mental exhaustion weakens you against renewed assault. It will lift, it is lifting, but nothing I can do will force it to be so.
As it was, I made it to Boxing Day evening without major drama and set off back home. It was in the car on the way home I realised what a struggle it had all actually been and that I should write about it, as I found myself crying or sobbing for much of the journey without really knowing why. It was because I was in a safe place to let go. A place noone else would know, or see. A place where I could cry.
I had a good Christmas. The fight with mental illness is however perennial, and this piece is meant to convey a part of that to those that would read it, or would know me better.
Yes, I did. I always enjoy the holiday, but, as ever, it comes at a cost in terms of different emotions and responses to cope with and accustom myself to. So much so that I thought it appropriate to write a piece today about what it is like to enjoy Christmas whilst combatting the twin dangers of my OCD and the ever present threat of depression.
I spent Christmas with my parents, and the day itself we all went to my Aunts for dinner and to celebrate the day (a direct follow on from my childhood when it was my maternal grandparents who always hosted the actual day). Of course being around those you love the best is in the main beneficial, but there is the thorny issue of how much strain I am under to hold things together and, if so, how much I can let myself show them of this without thinking I am spoiling Christmas for everyone (which in and of itself provides a feedback loop of depression and negativity).
Christmas Eve I actually went out for a few drinks, the first time in a few years I have done so (since we all grew up and the annual mash up and hangover mix became a Christmas tradition that had lapsed). My father and I ventured over the road to the hotel, expecting to find the bar packed full of those who were 'getting away from it all' and letting the professionals handle their celebration. In truth, aside from a young couple who nursed a couple of pints of cider for the evening, it was just the two of us. Strangely, it was quite a comforting evening, if somewhat removed from the reality of the busy party season.
That being said, I didn't drink enough to be suffering on Christmas morning and found myself downstairs at a reasonable hour and pleased to find Santa was aware to forward my haul to the parental home. It was OCD that took the first bite. I have an occasionally strong aversion to odd numbers, and a particular fear of doing things only once in my life. As foolish as it sounds to write it down and express it in words, the feelings that go with it are very real, and very strong. I found myself opening the presents and making sure I touched them all at least twice, and an even number of times. Naturally, I know there is no reason to suppose anything terrible would happen should I not, but that is the rub - the compulsion to follow the directive and to do this was then, and will be again, insurmountable. I feel bad when I am acting on a compulsion, partly because it chalks up a win for OCD and partly because I do not want anyone to be aware that I am doing it. It feeds right into the heart of worry that I will spoil Christmas if my parents became aware that during the joyous activity of exchanging and opening gifts, I am wracked by, and a prisoner of, compulsion.
The other attack by OCD came during Christmas dinner. Another aspect of the illness is that when I say I am going to do something it becomes an imperative that I do so. As a result, I oftern overeat. I might say when someone asks if I have enough, or want some more vegetables, meat etc that 'I might have some more once I have cleared the plate' - this becomes a direct instruction to the part of my brain that acts on compulsion to compel me to follow through on the suggested action. Strangely this doesn't always happen, but when it does I am in its thrall. And so it was during dinner. Does it hurt anyone? No. I just eat more than I might otherwise do so, but it adds to the rumblings of discontent within that I am struggling along and am riddled with imperfection which at any moment will bring the seasonal joy crashing to the ground in smouldering ruin. I am somewhat fortunate that my metabolism is not punishing me severely for it.
Depression is a much more difficult beast to predict, and, in many ways, deal with. I used to 'deal' with depression via drink (and yes the quotation marks whould tell you I know that is not dealing at all) - as a younger man, a fitter man, the punishment that heavy drinking does can be contained. Not that we were without close runs with disaster. Mudpuddlers of a longstanding vintage will remember the end of term that I returned home (actually for Christmas) yellow as my liver stuttered along at stall speed trying to cope with the abuse I was giving it. I report it now merely as a fact of what once was, fortunately for the here and now I had at that time the love of both a great family and a good woman who got me, at length and strain, onto a less destructive path. However, that was then, for now I always fear at times of holiday that depression will strike and leave me incapable of enjoying myself and denying enjoyment to those around me.
I had a bad run in to the holiday - despite a great start to December and a lovely trip up to London, I started struggling around mid month. I was still carrying this bleakness (albeit reduced somewhat) into the time at my parents. Christmas is an awful time to have depression because it comes with a seasonal overdose of guilt - I have no right to be down when so much love and kindness if being shown. My depression will bring down the glee of those I love the best - and so on and so forth in ever increasing strangulation. The flipside is that there are enough distractions around to keep the mind from dwelling too long on its 'state'.
This year was a definite tightrope. I have been having difficulty lately accepting where I am living, I am feeling increasingly isolated and exposed and this was bubbling along in the back of my mind all throughout the holiday. The major problem with the Christmas run in was a feeling of loneliness, even when in a crowded room or general company. This was again a problem over the last few days. It took a very big effort not to succomb to gloominess as I once again found myself surrounded by loved ones and yet at the same time distant and alone, cocooned in misery that I could neither show nor express. The tightrope is not these feelings in and of themselves as I have suffered with depression long enough to know you cannot think your way out of it. No, the tightrope is allowing yourself to experience this without letting it define your moverall mood, or the day. It would be very easy to allow that, but then would come the constant waves of grief and guilt for everyone elses Christmas that you have taken from them with your self-absorbtion. It is not easy to walk the line as it were, because if it is taking too much effort to do so, the mental exhaustion weakens you against renewed assault. It will lift, it is lifting, but nothing I can do will force it to be so.
As it was, I made it to Boxing Day evening without major drama and set off back home. It was in the car on the way home I realised what a struggle it had all actually been and that I should write about it, as I found myself crying or sobbing for much of the journey without really knowing why. It was because I was in a safe place to let go. A place noone else would know, or see. A place where I could cry.
I had a good Christmas. The fight with mental illness is however perennial, and this piece is meant to convey a part of that to those that would read it, or would know me better.
Monday, 12 December 2011
Rejig of The Thirty Second Smile
Written a while back, an ode to the trickery of memory and the odd things it presents us with
From nowhere leaps a memory
Of she that went before,
With gentle hands I haven't held
For countless years, and more!
So now she comes and dances here
Heralding forgotten charms?
Ah yes! Look, here comes yester-me
And sweeps her in his arms.
Such an oddly perfect pair they make;
Her grace, his mystery.
Fated, though they did not know,
To Love's sad history.
Now I must be content to pause,
And for the duration of their show,
I'll wear the smile of yesterday,
For my love of long ago!
From nowhere leaps a memory
Of she that went before,
With gentle hands I haven't held
For countless years, and more!
So now she comes and dances here
Heralding forgotten charms?
Ah yes! Look, here comes yester-me
And sweeps her in his arms.
Such an oddly perfect pair they make;
Her grace, his mystery.
Fated, though they did not know,
To Love's sad history.
Now I must be content to pause,
And for the duration of their show,
I'll wear the smile of yesterday,
For my love of long ago!
Saturday, 10 December 2011
Down down deeper on down
Last night I got to talk to someone about my illness. It brought home to me how I tend to shy away from discussing it, as if to voice it were to give it life. That being said, I do find it useful to write about it on here, and today I want to talk about depression. Not feeling a little blue, but the will-sapping wickedness that is depression, by whatever name I give it - be that The Black Dog, The Shadow or The Rot.
In truth, there are several different states of depression I find myself in. Different ways for different days I suppose, as if the fact of it itself were not enough. The most pervasive type of depression is when it leaves me feeling utterly bleak. When I say bleak, I should explain myself - it feels as if all the joy has been sucked out of the world. Laughter becomes hollow, tastes dissipate, nothing satisfies. It is as if I am cocooned in a thick mesh of bleakness that nothing good can penetrate. All thoughts, feelings and emotional responses get tangled in the bleakness and distorted by it and love, kindness and compassion from outside, from others cannot reach me, cannot get through the bleakness. The world pulls away and even a warm summers day to me seems grey and hopeless. It can last hours, days and once or twice has dragged on for weeks. And yet there comes a point at which it dissolves and sight, sound, taste and emotions are startlingly clear for a time. Like a man who has lived in a cave blinking at the dawn outside.
Then there is fear depression. I can become convinced that there is no solution to any problem, that whatever path I decide to tread will be the wrong one, will bring about the worst possible result. It makes me feel as if I am incapable of making a decision correctly, that each decision is the wrong one - and I drift from fear of outcomes to the conclusion that events will go against me regardless of what I choose merely by dint of it being the choice I made - my own defective choice making is the root cause of failure.
Talking of failure, another form of fear centres around failure. I become transfixed by all the things I have not done, convincing myself that because I have not done it yet, I will forever fail in the endeavour. Because I have not done X, I will never achieve X, I have failed at X, X has beaten me. It gets very easy to become maudlin and things soon escalate into anger at myself because I could have, or I should have, or I never did. All those might have beens play the fiddle whilst my depression burns on. And oh how it hurts - this borderline self-loathing, the utterly harsh and untenable line I take with myself. Self-reinforcing depression.
All of this is a feedback loop, and I can find myself in a deep depression over my own percevied shortcomings. At its worst, I am utterly convinced that my feelings are inferior, are not worthy of this world. Take as an example love. Love is a beautiful, natural and amazing feeling and yet I will not let myself express it. Is it fear of failure? Yes, partly, but it is also that I feel my love is not worthy, my love is not enough, that I could never give enough love of enough quality to deserve the happiness that comes with its reciprocation. I would not want to burden anyone with my love. And yet there is the counterpoint, the discord in the back of my mind at the howling loneliness, the emptiness of life without love. And now I have made myself cry.
Its a tough old journey, time will tell how far I have come.
In truth, there are several different states of depression I find myself in. Different ways for different days I suppose, as if the fact of it itself were not enough. The most pervasive type of depression is when it leaves me feeling utterly bleak. When I say bleak, I should explain myself - it feels as if all the joy has been sucked out of the world. Laughter becomes hollow, tastes dissipate, nothing satisfies. It is as if I am cocooned in a thick mesh of bleakness that nothing good can penetrate. All thoughts, feelings and emotional responses get tangled in the bleakness and distorted by it and love, kindness and compassion from outside, from others cannot reach me, cannot get through the bleakness. The world pulls away and even a warm summers day to me seems grey and hopeless. It can last hours, days and once or twice has dragged on for weeks. And yet there comes a point at which it dissolves and sight, sound, taste and emotions are startlingly clear for a time. Like a man who has lived in a cave blinking at the dawn outside.
Then there is fear depression. I can become convinced that there is no solution to any problem, that whatever path I decide to tread will be the wrong one, will bring about the worst possible result. It makes me feel as if I am incapable of making a decision correctly, that each decision is the wrong one - and I drift from fear of outcomes to the conclusion that events will go against me regardless of what I choose merely by dint of it being the choice I made - my own defective choice making is the root cause of failure.
Talking of failure, another form of fear centres around failure. I become transfixed by all the things I have not done, convincing myself that because I have not done it yet, I will forever fail in the endeavour. Because I have not done X, I will never achieve X, I have failed at X, X has beaten me. It gets very easy to become maudlin and things soon escalate into anger at myself because I could have, or I should have, or I never did. All those might have beens play the fiddle whilst my depression burns on. And oh how it hurts - this borderline self-loathing, the utterly harsh and untenable line I take with myself. Self-reinforcing depression.
All of this is a feedback loop, and I can find myself in a deep depression over my own percevied shortcomings. At its worst, I am utterly convinced that my feelings are inferior, are not worthy of this world. Take as an example love. Love is a beautiful, natural and amazing feeling and yet I will not let myself express it. Is it fear of failure? Yes, partly, but it is also that I feel my love is not worthy, my love is not enough, that I could never give enough love of enough quality to deserve the happiness that comes with its reciprocation. I would not want to burden anyone with my love. And yet there is the counterpoint, the discord in the back of my mind at the howling loneliness, the emptiness of life without love. And now I have made myself cry.
Its a tough old journey, time will tell how far I have come.
Wednesday, 16 November 2011
The Secret (rewrite)
No-one knows, as I never talk,
Of my aching love for you.
I keep it bottled, under cork
Where it is safe, and true.
A weakness, or insanity,
That I should fail to act?
It's not for pride, or vanity,
I am mired here with tact.
Oh, I wish I'd told you months ago
Win back the time we've lost,
But,alas, I took it far too slow,
To our detriment, and cost.
And yet, so simple, it should be
To set it out in words;
Paint it for you, lyrically
Like the other bees to birds.
Of course, I fear I'm not enough,
Wrong in a thousand ways.
Too nervous to blag it, off the cuff,
Lost in my nervous haze.
So, tis secretly you hold my heart
And, in sorrow, I stay quiet.
Dreaming that we are not apart,
As I was brave enough to try it.
Of my aching love for you.
I keep it bottled, under cork
Where it is safe, and true.
A weakness, or insanity,
That I should fail to act?
It's not for pride, or vanity,
I am mired here with tact.
Oh, I wish I'd told you months ago
Win back the time we've lost,
But,alas, I took it far too slow,
To our detriment, and cost.
And yet, so simple, it should be
To set it out in words;
Paint it for you, lyrically
Like the other bees to birds.
Of course, I fear I'm not enough,
Wrong in a thousand ways.
Too nervous to blag it, off the cuff,
Lost in my nervous haze.
So, tis secretly you hold my heart
And, in sorrow, I stay quiet.
Dreaming that we are not apart,
As I was brave enough to try it.
Sunday, 13 November 2011
The Fear
One of the things I find it hardest to do is to open up about my feelings on a one to one basis. If you're a regular visitor to my blog, you'll know that I have no problem expressing feelings in poems, or in the snippets of short stories I occasionally post here. However, I find writing things down all too easy, and indeed in poems the feelings of the self can be transformed into more generic comment on love itself, or the protagonist can become anyone, and the feelings universal.
How much more terrifying to speak to someone directly and address these issues. Now, I am not necessarily talking here about proclamations of adoration and love, though they would indeed fall into this category, but more generally than that, expressing how I feel in any capacity is extremely hard for me.
It doesn't really help matters that this opening up is exactly what I need to do to help out with my mental health issues. I would dearly love to be able to open up and talk one on one with those closest to me about the things I struggle with, my fears and shame at my own weaknesses. My friends and family will generally know when I am struggling, but I need to be able to convey how and why I am struggling, what I am struggling with. However, as much as I have played out conversations like this time and again in my head, I can never push myself to sit down with someone and have the conversation for real. I'm really not sure if it is fear of uncorking the bottle, or fear that my problems are too small and insignificant to trouble others with, but fear it is, and fear I am stuck with.
The silly thing is, I am not sure where the fear stems from. It is not as if I have a long history of wrongly trusting others with my feelings, I cannot recall any incident in truth where I have trusted someone and had it thrown back in my face. People are not as terrifying with your feelings as I imagine. Yes I have had my heart broken, haven't we all? But no-one has ever gone out of their way to hurt me, it has always been one of the unavoidable by-products of falling in love with at least one constituent out of sync (right time, right place, right person).
While we're on the subject of love.... I don't really find that easy either (unsurprising isn't it!) Have I ever said 'I love you' and meant it? Yes. Have I said those words to every person I have been in love with? No, guilty as charged. That bothers me. There exists, in this universe, undeclared love, and it is my fault it is undeclared. It has never had the chance to fly, because I have stifled it. In fear.
So, there we have it. I am an Old Yellow with my feelings. I need to change that, and (perhaps) writing it on here will serve as a reminder to me to man up and trust people. So, if you ever have me all to yourself, and you are frustrated as I am with my inability to express, remind me about this blog entry and tell me it is time to open up. Who knows? It might just work!
How much more terrifying to speak to someone directly and address these issues. Now, I am not necessarily talking here about proclamations of adoration and love, though they would indeed fall into this category, but more generally than that, expressing how I feel in any capacity is extremely hard for me.
It doesn't really help matters that this opening up is exactly what I need to do to help out with my mental health issues. I would dearly love to be able to open up and talk one on one with those closest to me about the things I struggle with, my fears and shame at my own weaknesses. My friends and family will generally know when I am struggling, but I need to be able to convey how and why I am struggling, what I am struggling with. However, as much as I have played out conversations like this time and again in my head, I can never push myself to sit down with someone and have the conversation for real. I'm really not sure if it is fear of uncorking the bottle, or fear that my problems are too small and insignificant to trouble others with, but fear it is, and fear I am stuck with.
The silly thing is, I am not sure where the fear stems from. It is not as if I have a long history of wrongly trusting others with my feelings, I cannot recall any incident in truth where I have trusted someone and had it thrown back in my face. People are not as terrifying with your feelings as I imagine. Yes I have had my heart broken, haven't we all? But no-one has ever gone out of their way to hurt me, it has always been one of the unavoidable by-products of falling in love with at least one constituent out of sync (right time, right place, right person).
While we're on the subject of love.... I don't really find that easy either (unsurprising isn't it!) Have I ever said 'I love you' and meant it? Yes. Have I said those words to every person I have been in love with? No, guilty as charged. That bothers me. There exists, in this universe, undeclared love, and it is my fault it is undeclared. It has never had the chance to fly, because I have stifled it. In fear.
So, there we have it. I am an Old Yellow with my feelings. I need to change that, and (perhaps) writing it on here will serve as a reminder to me to man up and trust people. So, if you ever have me all to yourself, and you are frustrated as I am with my inability to express, remind me about this blog entry and tell me it is time to open up. Who knows? It might just work!
Thursday, 3 November 2011
All the things I'd do for you (remix!)
I'd call you in the morning,
Because I miss your voice,
Or whisk you without warning
To destinations of your choice.
When I come, I'd bring you flowers,
And a book about Peru,
Y'know we could be there in twelve hours
Give or taking one or two.
On weekends we would wander
Under blue and sun-kissed skies,
Or I'd gaze at you and ponder
The depth and beauty of your eyes.
I'd take you out, carousing,
And wake with cloudy head.
Which is in itself arousing,
An excuse to stay in bed.
Of course I'd very often,
Turn up with a grin,
And watch you laugh and soften
At the foolish mood I'm in.
Oh, if only I could find the way
To tell you to your face,
That when I see you, any day,
My heart begins to race.
Because I miss your voice,
Or whisk you without warning
To destinations of your choice.
When I come, I'd bring you flowers,
And a book about Peru,
Y'know we could be there in twelve hours
Give or taking one or two.
On weekends we would wander
Under blue and sun-kissed skies,
Or I'd gaze at you and ponder
The depth and beauty of your eyes.
I'd take you out, carousing,
And wake with cloudy head.
Which is in itself arousing,
An excuse to stay in bed.
Of course I'd very often,
Turn up with a grin,
And watch you laugh and soften
At the foolish mood I'm in.
Oh, if only I could find the way
To tell you to your face,
That when I see you, any day,
My heart begins to race.
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